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aku terpanggil untuk check out facebook niece aku (anak cousin aku).. dah besar panjang dia..Form 1 dah..and dia ada nyanyi karaoke masa kenduri kahwin kakak aku bulan 6 2010,boleh tahan la..boleh la kot nak lawan dengan suara auntie dia ni..ehem3..haha

apa sebenarnya tarikan yang suruh aku click nama dia kat facebook? sebab ada wall home aku yang dia in a relationship with *tuut tuutt*..aku tergelak sendiri bila tengok gambar balak dia tu..sangat budak2 lagi..(hey aku faham umur baya tu memang mempunyai taste yang pelik lagi haha). but i think that's good for her, sebab kalau dia cari yang lebih tua, atau yang lebih matang, aku jamin dia akan rosak..you know what i mean right? bukan la rosak 'rosak', maksud aku, pemikiran dia rosak nanti, maybe tak sesuai dengan pemikiran selaras usia dia..



tapi she is 'rosak' in certain angle..she speaks dirty, like pu**maks and stuff like that..which freaks me out! SHE IS MY NIECE IN ANY WAYS! and she talked about someone named *tuttt* almost kissed her, which she claimed that her BF might not see it however..aku memang kecewa bila ada saudara yang macam tu, come on, she's 13 or almost 13, dia tak sepatutnya ada perangai macam tu..imagine when she grows more older,like after 2-4 years laters, aku risau perangai dia lebih menjadi2..lebih2 lagi bila dia dah banyak kali plan nak lari dari rumah, dia cakap mama and papa dia macam..urgh..susah nak explain, tapi aku tau dia benci parents dia sekarang..



entah la, aku tak faham..tau la nak memberontak, aku pun dulu2 macam tu jugak, but not that STUPID, i would never run away from home walaupun aku marah2..run away from home is the most stupidest thing to do lagi2 bila diri sendiri yang salah tapi blame parents yang salah pulak..but lain kalau dalam kes ada dera mendera ke, child abuse something like that, camtu logik la nak lari dari rumah..tapi dia cakap papa dia tak dera pon..so?what is the big deal, girl? you are ruining your own life!

bajet dah cukup besar la tu kan?aku just hope dia dapat sabar and tak terikut2 dengan budaya Barat yang tunjuk anak selalu lari dari rumah..aku faham dengan umur dia skang, memang normal memberontak tu, and the desire to try something new..kita semua pernah melalui kan? let's just pray that she'll manage to handle her problem in smart ways..run away is not how the problems should be solved..she's being too emo~



this is the comment i left in her facebook:

sory for interrupted,come on,**** still dlm transition dr bdk2 ke teenage..normal u noe..aa wut shud u call me eh,auntie kot?sbb i ank uncle of ur mother..normal k,dl auntie pun cmtu,tp xde la smp nk lari dr uma..sbr je la..Allah ade..yeah it hurts,but i am sure they did that for d best..trust me, when u have reach the age like me,u'll be grateful cos they actually care for u,in their own way,u juz hav to be patient.ok **** my niece?cool k? n sory if u think i dun understand u,i am just trying to help u,i dun like my own blood related family hurts

p/s: if u read this my dear niece, recite astaghfirullahal'azim many times..sorry to say,but you really are stupid and so naive if you ever think of running away from home again. berubahlah..think positive..and mesej yang serupa kepada mana2 reader yang baca ni, don't make the mistake that you will regret forever..